Stay Happy Always

How to Stay Happy Always :-)

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1. Throw out nonessential numbers.

This includes age, weight, and height.

Let the doctors worry about them.. That is why you pay them.

2. Keep only cheerful friends.

The grouches pull you down.

(Keep this in mind if you are one of those grouches!)

3. Keep learning:
Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever.

Never let the brain get idle.

'An idle mind is the devil's workshop.'

And the devil's name is Alzheimer's!

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4. Enjoy the simple things

5. Laugh often, long and loud.

Laugh until you gasp for breath.

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And if you have a friend who makes you laugh,

spend lots and lots of time with him or her!

6. The tears happen:
Endure, grieve, and move on.

The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourself.

LIVE while you are alive.

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7. Surround yourself with what you love:

Whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music,

plants, hobbies, whatever.

Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health:
If it is good, preserve it.

If it is unstable, improve it.

If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

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9. Don't take guilt trips.

Take a trip to the mall,

even to a foreign country,

but NOT to where the guilt is

10. Tell the people you love that you love them

, at every opportunity.

Share all the above with the one

you come across to make them HaPpY Always..!!

From my pal

Meloy Bebnath

Thought Probing-12

Leave The Choices

GOD GIVES THE VERY BEST TO THOSE
WHO LEAVE THE CHOICES UP TO HIM!

From my pal
Vasanth

Stimulate-9

Shark In Your Tank

Japanese Startergy ..Shark In Your Tank!!

The Japanese have always loved fresh fish. But the waters close to Japan have
not held many fish for decades. So to feed the Japanese population, fishing boats
got bigger and went farther than ever.

The farther the fishermen went, the longer it took to bring in the fish.
If the return trip took more than a few days, the fish were not fresh.
The Japanese did not like the taste.

To solve this problem, fishing companies installed freezers on their
boats. They would catch the fish and freeze them at sea. Freezers
allowed the boats to go farther and stay longer.

However, the Japanese could taste the difference between fresh and
frozen and they did not like frozen fish. The frozen fish brought a
lower price.

So fishing companies installed fish tanks. They would catch the fish and
stuff them in the tanks, fin to fin. After a little thrashing around,
the fish stopped moving. They were tired and dull, but alive.

Unfortunately, the Japanese could still taste the difference. Because
the fish did not move for days, they lost their fresh-fish taste. The
Japanese preferred the lively taste of fresh fish, not sluggish fish.

So how did Japanese fishing companies solve this problem? How do they
get fresh-tasting fish to Japan?

To keep the fish tasting fresh, the Japanese fishing companies (still)
put the fish in the tanks. But now they add a small shark to each tank.
The shark eats a few fish, but most of the fish arrive in a very lively
state.

Like the Japanese fish - "Man thrives, oddly enough, only in the
presence of a challenging environment."- L. Ron Hubbard

Challenges are what keep us FRESH!

Instead of avoiding challenges, jump into them. Beat the heck out of
them.

Enjoy the game. If your challenges are too large or too numerous,
reorganize the challenge, team up, be resourceful and do not give up.

Failing makes you tired.

If you have met your goals, set some bigger goals. Once you meet your
personal or family needs, move onto goals for your group, the society,
even mankind.

Don't create success and lie in it. You have resources, skills and
abilities to make a difference.

Put a shark in your tank and see how far you can really go !!

From my pal
Anurag Mittal

Thought Probing-11

For Peace

"If we are peaceful,

if we are happy,

we can smile and blossom like a flower, and

everyone in our family, our entire society,

will benefit from our peace."

— Thich Nhat Hanh

Uniting is the beginning..!!

Understanding that we are united in a common goal of peace on earth is the beginning of establishing a new era of peace. The next step is to work together for peace.

A balance of Four paths to peace..!!
There are 4 paths that people for peace must follow to bring peace on earth. Two of these are the ways of the peacemakers and two are the ways of the peaceworkers. Each of the four paths is important in the lives of every one of us. But each of us will find the right balance of the four paths of peace for our lives.

We must all be peacemakers..!!
For there to be peace, we must all be peacemakers. Peacemaking is a way of life, a way of thinking that is integrated into our daily lives. It is striving to use every interaction as a chance to spread peace and build bonds of friendship and community, no matter where we are or what we are doing.

Peace of mind is the key..!!
To be effective peacemakers we must have peace of mind. We can only help make our lives and our world more peaceful, when we ourselves feel peace. And so the second path of the peacemaker is to seek and maintain inner peace.

We must also work for peace..!!
We must also be peaceworkers -- actively working for peace, in order for peace on earth to come in our time. Some will choose to submerge their lives in working for peace and compassion. But for most of us there are little things that we can do in our daily lives as peaceworkers. Every act that shares peace and compassion is important as we move forward together. THERE ARE NO SMALL ACTS OF COMPASSION. Every victory for peace brings us all closer to peace on earth.

Spread peace & compassion..!!
The two paths of the peaceworker are to do good works to help ease human suffering and build new bridges of peace and understanding; and to spread the message that peace is important, so that it will become part of the values and goals of society.

Peacemaking is a way of life..!!
Each of the four paths of peace is important. All must be walked upon to bring peace on earth. All become part of our lives when we choose a life of peace.

From
http://wherepeacelives.org

Thought Probing-10